WELCOME

I am here to listen. I am not an advisor or degreed professional. If you would like my feed back I will only give communication based on personal experiences. If in need of professional help, please contact appropriate sources.

I happen to have a gift of listening without judgement or bias. I do not feel anyone should not be able to speak their entire truth. Without worry about repercussion or judgement from family, work, friends or community.

There are so many of us without an outlet other than our own minds and I want to help change that.

MY
STORY

Get to Know Me

Hello everyone and thank you for being here. My name is Nancy. I am a Mother of five young adults and a Nana to three Grandbabies.

I have an autoimmune disorder, Systemic Lupus, along with a few other diagnoses.

I have been a Nurse over 20 years now and I am a retail Store Manager, as well as now pursuing my love of wanting to help others realize that Their pasts do not define who you are, but brought you to today where you can choose who you are going to be and how your choices, once you commit to heal through truth will change the experiences you have going forward.

It took a separation and subsequent divorce of a 21 year relationship for me to realize I no longer knew who I was and what I was meant to be doing. My life had always been about providing as much stability, love and support for my children and Husband that when I lost that I had a hard time finding myself.

I was never one to have close friends. Growing up a Military Brat than marrying a Military Man, I had always felt that close ties would be broken with the frequent moves due to military relocations; found this out young. That thought pattern kept me pretty isolated from making true friends or getting close to coworkers. This would at times led me to some situations which did not always lead to good decisions. I made plenty of not so good choices, but I feel I made many good ones as well.

Now I am on the path to be authentic to myself and bluntly honest in how I act and feel about all things.

I hope that if you do not feel like talking things out with me that you do find a way to start accepting that who you were, what may have occurred to you or been done to or by you is the past and you do not have to stay stuck in that place, move forward by expressing all the emotions connected to those times so you can work towards healing with your truth.